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Phillip Toledano - Days with My Father

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I believe these images and words are some of the most compelling and moving I’ve ever seen. I am a photographer and not a writer, I wish I could better express how this series affected me.

Submitted By:  CanoeGuru 
Submitted: 7/23/2008 9:20:46 PM (484 days 21 hours ago)
Source: www.dayswithmyfather.com

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  angelbabi13
  
 7/30/2008 11:59:32 PM
That was absolutely beautiful and inspiring. I was compelled by the entire thing, and the artwork is touching. Thank you for sharing.
  johnnycma
  Attleboro
 8/6/2008 8:34:17 PM
That is absolutely fantastic. I love the lighting in the images and the focusing. I wish I could take photos liks these. Very well done!
  ncarnes7
  Sacramento
 8/7/2008 9:30:25 PM
This was profound. My I found myentire family crowded around my laptop urging me on to the next entry. I am truly moved. I am a better person for having shared Phillips love for his father.
  Mgcarnes
  Sacramento
 8/8/2008 3:47:55 PM
I'm touched, this was very good.  Keep the memories alive. :)~
  sayitloud_ashley
  Fairmont
 8/23/2008 10:11:25 PM
that was so sad,
and completely amazing.
  JaquiBrooks
  Bridlington
 8/24/2008 5:26:17 PM
My father is 92, and has cancer, he was given by the Dr's three weeks, four at the most left to live, that was nine weeks ago. My every waking moment is spent with him along with my brother. The photos of your Father so inspired me to try and make a journal along similar lines as your own. I managed but a few,  it was then, that I really saw my Father and how tired and weary he looked. I could not bare to take any more photos of him at the time, as I became too emotional.. I shall endeavor to try again.  Jaqui
  Sibbers
  Essex
 8/25/2008 2:47:42 PM
Thats was absolutley beautiful, keep sharing the love
  JRKyle
  Saint Louis Missouri
 8/29/2008 2:46:45 PM
This is Very Very moving to me..  My father is 90 years of age - he still has most of his factualities, but can not walk.  I take him to the doctor and on a few of my photographic trips, ones that would not require me to leave the car too long of a time - I just do not want him to me alone in the Jeep.  I have to "load" him into the Jeep by mostly picking him up and putting him in the seat.  The important thing is that we can do some things together.  He sleeps most of the time.
I only wanted to say that This Moved me a ways I can only describe as heart wrenching - But it IS a good thing too.

James..
  alberty
  tel aviv
 8/30/2008 4:32:33 AM
it was intresting,inspiring,and tuching

could'nt we start in the age of 85 and go back in time???
  Escape
  Santa Rosa
 8/30/2008 8:48:22 AM
Our short lives in this world is just a flash in the context of eternity. We have just a fleeting moment to share our lives with the ones we love--let's not let the moment pass. Phillip precious work and effort made me remember of those days now gone and they live only in my mind.
  chesky
  Shanghai
 9/1/2008 10:03:31 AM
Very impressive and touching me strongly.
Keep the memories and smile forever.
  killahbabe
  Charlotte
 9/2/2008 1:42:04 PM
I loved every bit of it!!! Never take for granted the little things in life, and always cherish every memory!!! It was truly inspiring!!!
  tcPrice
  
 9/3/2008 8:41:58 PM
Profound documentary and dedication. This really hit home with me as my father died August 22nd and his funeral was last week. Old age is a heartbreaker, but Phillip really put a torch to his soul with this series. Such a loving work of art. A masterpiece. Thanks for sharing.
  kitt10s
  Farawayland
 9/8/2008 1:57:28 AM
A tribute to life, parents, caring and loving children.  Thank you for sharing.
  klingklingeling
  Near Aachen
 9/8/2008 6:05:00 PM
unbelievabel. Such a great Idea! The Story filled my eyes with tears!
  mandee2979
  
 9/12/2008 10:47:36 PM
Amazing and in the picture your father took of you You asked if it showed how much you loved him YES it did !!
  TwoMoons
  
 9/29/2008 8:24:40 AM
I cannot even describe this in words - this is a must see for everyone. Truly compassionate.
  billysmo
  galena, missouri
 10/1/2008 9:54:54 AM
Such a beautiful set of photos. Your father is a beautiful man. My daddy passed away in March and this makes me wish I had taken more photos of him. Perhaps I will post some more of the ones that I do have. Congratulations on a wonderful job. Melissa.
  billysmo
  galena, missouri
 10/1/2008 9:57:54 AM
Adding to my last comment, my father was only 59 when he died. Years of spraying pesticides did it's toll on him. Bless you and your family. Melissa
  yahtze123
  New Berlin, WI
 10/6/2008 11:06:04 PM
This has touched me in a way that is so deep it is hard to explain.  This was passionate and incredibly heartfelt.  Some of the best photography I've ever seen.  Each picture strummed a cord of my heart and played a song all to familar to someone of my age.  This is a time in my life when parents become older and time becomes limited. God Bless you Phillip Toledano (and your family).  This belongs in a museum for all the world to see.  Cindy
  PapaJoe
  Clarksville
 10/7/2008 9:25:27 AM
I have not talked to my father in a very long time. We have never been very close. He is 77 this year, I think I will call him. Thank you!
  Alison
  Peoria, Arizona
 10/7/2008 11:32:59 AM
one who is dear to my heart sent your site link to me this morning, Today i am saying good-bye to my Dad, as we are taking him off of life support, your beautiful pictures of your Dad were very calming, thank-you for sharing them with us.(they helped me)
  ziggyiguana
  
 10/12/2008 6:11:15 PM
You have some very wonderful photos. The one day with my father is priceless.  Wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  babygvc2
  Dundee
 10/15/2008 12:32:30 AM
This was an amazing collection of thoughts,feelings and emotions. i am very honored to have shared this with you, what a great way to document what is so meaningful to you in life. Great photos to go with this as well!! Again Thank you for sharing it has truly been an inspiration to many!
  Segis08
  Zaragoza
 10/21/2008 6:20:41 AM
The goodness of children, reflects the goodness of parents.
!!! GREAT !!!
  haphazardkat
  Vancouver
 10/22/2008 2:25:28 PM
I'm am so deeply moved. My heart aches.
  aurelia7
  Klamath Falls, OR
 11/4/2008 1:05:47 AM
Thank you so much for sharing.  I was touched that it made me cry.  It inspired me to go back and spend some time with my own father since the days are so short.
  PriscillaSharpe
  Klamath Falls, OR
 11/4/2008 3:02:08 AM
Phillip I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this story of you and your father. I has helped be a great deal.
My mother is very ill with emphysema, heart trouble, pneumonia, and has gotten very weak-her greatest fear has been going slowly, and suffering in the process.
Thank you so much for this site, it has given me the strength and grace to stand by her side hopefully for as long as GOD will allow.
PriscillaSharpe
  Fritz_57
  Hamersville
 11/12/2008 1:42:09 PM
Touching
  pelagus
  paris
 11/16/2008 8:30:20 AM
beautiful moving images
  sfriel
  Erie, PA
 11/17/2008 4:12:18 PM
Very touching and inspiring!!!!!!!!!
  shutterbug2go
  Chicago suburb
 11/29/2008 9:07:39 PM
This was wonderful. The best thing I could have seen today. My mother passed last June and my father is 85. This was so what I needed to see.
Such love for them both. Your mother would be proud.
  michaelb
  Atlanta
 11/30/2008 8:12:35 PM
A very remarkable and courageous testament.
  iSnap_a_lot
  
 12/3/2008 11:32:55 AM
Amazing. I give you credit for taking these photos.  My grandma passed away this summer.  I found out in April of 2007 that she had lung cancer, stage four.  I so badly wanted to take photos of her, but didn't want to upset her since she was dying.  Be very proud that you were able to document your father in such an incredible fashion.  Your work is amazing.
  Lillian512
  North Carolina
 12/19/2008 10:28:40 AM
OMG!  Your Dad & You are AWESOME!
Thanks for sharing and I REALLY like how you did this!
Kudos to you!
Heres to Dad *holds up my glass*
  goldie
  lucknow
 1/6/2009 11:53:35 AM
many things not in our hand......u r write, we r not a writter,
very touching, thanks
  catwoman
  Bressuire
 1/14/2009 2:40:51 AM
Thank you for sharing this with us all.  I found it very moving.

My father had a heart attack on 15th January 2006 and died three days later .... I treasure all my photos and memories of him.  Another wonderful man.
  boots
  Lexington
 1/18/2009 11:48:12 AM
what a beautiful. loving and moving tribute.
  jikka24
  sharon
 2/3/2009 2:25:59 AM
WOW! those photographs were absolutely beautiful. I actually had tears in my eyes. I wish I'd known more about photography when my grandfather was still alive.
  anirudhe
  Kolkata
 2/6/2009 10:36:16 AM
Amazing..thats what I felt..!!!
  Mudbug
  Vancouver
 2/12/2009 9:51:20 PM
My mother passed away in 1990.The day we buried her, they told my father he had a year to live. Devastation.
He passed away in 1996. I miss them both immensely and each day has a different void for me.
Thank you so much for bringing them back to me and letting me embrace them one more time.
Your photos are outstandingly haunting and rich with emotion. You sir, "paint" with your lens.

  kaden
  Jerusalem
 3/2/2009 4:19:39 AM
Your beautiful father reminded me of my grandfather and it was both joyful and sad looking through the pictures. The love that you have for him is very obvious.
G-d bless you.
  TheresaPotgieter
  Walvis Bay
 3/8/2009 4:50:57 AM
I think this is great!  It made me sad and want to laugh at the same time.  Great photography.  Great memories!
  litewriter
  Naplate
 4/5/2009 9:50:59 AM
The tale of your father added the meaning to the pictures that where taken so gracefully! I feel inspired. Thank you for sharing.
  litewriter
  Naplate
 4/5/2009 9:51:45 AM
  Airam
  
 4/7/2009 6:59:20 PM
I just read this and could hardly get through it.  Those days reminded me so much of my father that I miss every single second of my life.  I was deeply touch by the words and the photo's.  Thank you for sharing this.  Ang
  walraji
  Girona
 5/2/2009 10:46:49 AM
I have no words to express my feelings, I'm really touched. My mother died on 21th of this month. The photographs are simply beautiful.
  ElmarieCoetzee
  Walvis Bay
 5/6/2009 6:28:12 PM
You got me into tears as I read thru your story about you and your dad, I wish I had more time with my dad, he died when I was just 11 years old, I am now 34 an it still hurts and I still miss singing with him and his protective arms around me, we were very close. Enjoy your dad while he is still there even thou he forgets things it does not matter, he is still whith you.
  volare
  Kalkara
 5/10/2009 5:03:46 AM
As I read the poignant account of your love, and tender care you showered on your father, I couldn’t help tell myself that it isn’t true what they say about the world we are living in. It isn’t all that selfish and unkind. Your account and top-notch photographic record of your father’s atrophying health is a clear manifestation of a child’s love and devotion towards those two special people in his life who by their act of love brought him into this world. Philip, you should be proud of what you did to your father, and I am sure that he would have done the same and even more if things were opposite. All the best in life mate, and I am sure that both of your parents are proudly looking at you from atop the Eiffel Tower. One last word in which to congratulate you on the way you portrayed your devotion photographically. It’s a masterpiece.
  cassandra25
  Moundsville
 6/16/2009 2:36:55 AM
what a wonderful journal you've kept..it was very touching to me..i'm glad you wrote it! I love the pictures!
  juicyjewels
  Calgary, AB
 6/20/2009 10:32:36 PM
there are no words to describe how i feel right now!  what an amazing story, of an amazing man!  wow!  i am so deeply sorry for your loss, but so extremely grateful that you got to spend that special time and make those special memories with your dad!  you've touched my heart today! 

jennette
  AndyCampbell
  Shanghai
 7/10/2009 7:28:36 PM
wonderful... simply wonderful.
  sevlow
  
 7/29/2009 1:10:07 PM
A wonderful story, very moving
  aayzee87
  fishkill
 8/18/2009 9:04:26 PM
I cannot even begin to explain how i feel after reading and looking at this slideshow, I found myself in tears during and after...and also found myself thinking of my own father and how i want our relationship to be as close and intense as you and yours. I envy what you've experienced in the time you spent with your father. Thank you so much for sharing this with the world! I am so glad i stumbled upon it. 
         
          - Andrew
  flenabead
  
 9/27/2009 2:21:08 PM
That was beautiful...What a treasure you are.  My mother turns 91 in October.  There are not many who would be so kind and endearing  a son.  The excellence of the picture were truly enhance by your understanding of what an "old man" needed.  I am a writer and I think you should publish it.  I wish you the best!
  JavierMartinez
  Mexico DF
 11/4/2009 10:40:05 PM
When I sow your work, I only can to think in my father. Thank for remember me all that i apreciate for my father

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